For Teachers

Supporting the Whole Child

Teachers shape far more than academic learning.

Every day, children bring emotions, worries, friendships, family experiences, hopes, and struggles into the classroom.

BCHBH helps schools create learning environments where emotional awareness can grow alongside academic development.

The goal is not to add another subject.

The goal is to help children feel safe enough to learn.

Starting with connection

Every Child Wants to Belong

Before children can fully engage in learning, they need to feel accepted and connected.

A sense of belonging helps children:

  • feel safe
  • participate more confidently
  • build healthy relationships
  • develop resilience

Small moments of connection often have a lasting impact.

A smile, a greeting, a moment of listening, or simply being noticed can make a significant difference in a child's day.

A teacher listening warmly to a small group of children gathered around a classroom table.

Understanding Behaviour Differently

Behaviour is often a form of communication.

When children become disruptive, withdrawn, anxious, or frustrated, there is usually something happening beneath the surface.

Instead of asking:

“How do I stop this behaviour?”

BCHBH encourages educators to explore:

“What might this child be experiencing?”

This shift creates opportunities for understanding, support, and growth.

What we see

AngerCryingRefusingDisruptingWithdrawalLack of concentration

What the child is carrying

FearSadnessWorryStressLonelinessFriendship difficultiesFamily stressEmotional overwhelmA Full Heart Bottle
The Behaviour Iceberg

Using the Heart Bottle in the Classroom

The Heart Bottle — a simple emotional awareness tool for the classroom.

The Heart Bottle provides children with a simple and non-threatening way to talk about emotions.

Teachers can ask:

  • How full is your Heart Bottle today?
  • What added water to your bottle?
  • What helped your bottle feel lighter?

The Heart Bottle encourages emotional awareness without requiring children to share more than they are comfortable sharing.

The Weight We Carry

The Weight We Carry — infographic showing small pebbles, medium pebbles, and large stones in heart bottles

Every pebble adds weight to the Heart Bottle.

Some pebbles are small.
Some pebbles are heavy.

All pebbles deserve understanding.

Children often understand emotional weight more easily than emotional terminology.

The goal is not to ask:

“What's wrong with you?”

Instead BCHBH asks:

“What are you carrying today?”

What's In Your Heart Bottle Today?

What's in your Heart Bottle today — infographic showing blue, yellow, and dark pebbles

Different pebbles tell different stories.

Some children may be carrying:

  • everyday worries
  • excitement
  • friendship challenges
  • family concerns
  • grief
  • fear
  • uncertainty

The Heart Bottle helps children notice what they are carrying without judgement.

The heart always remains present.

Classroom Check-In Ideas

Teachers might ask:

How full is your Heart Bottle today?
Are you carrying blue, yellow, or dark pebbles?
Do you have any big stones today?
What might help your bottle feel lighter?

Children can answer as much or as little as they wish.

The goal is awareness, not disclosure.

Creating Emotional Safety

Children learn best when they feel emotionally safe.

Emotional safety grows when classrooms include:

  • respect
  • consistency
  • kindness
  • clear boundaries
  • opportunities to express feelings

A calm classroom does not mean the absence of emotion.

It means children know their emotions are welcome and manageable.

Small Moments Matter

Emotional learning does not always require special lessons.

It often happens during everyday moments:

  • greeting children in the morning
  • checking in after break time
  • resolving disagreements
  • celebrating effort
  • helping children recover after mistakes

These small interactions gradually build emotional resilience.

Teachers and children sitting together during circle time

Supporting Yourself as a Teacher

Teachers care deeply about children, but they also carry emotional pressure of their own.

BCHBH recognises the importance of teacher wellbeing.

Children benefit when the adults around them are supported, valued, and emotionally aware.

You do not need to be a perfect teacher.

You only need to keep showing up with care and willingness to learn.

Growing together

A Shared Journey

BCHBH is not a programme that belongs only to children.

It is a shared journey involving teachers, parents, caregivers, and communities.

When adults develop emotional awareness, children naturally learn from what they experience every day.

Together, we help bring children's hearts back home.

Next: BCHBH Kids

Children learn best when ideas are presented in ways they can understand and enjoy.

The next section introduces BCHBH directly through the eyes of children.

Explore BCHBH Kids →